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Question My husband had an affair with a friend of mine. My husband and I have reconciled. But why do I feel the need to confront this woman? I want to talk to her about her foul decision making and how she betrayed me and took my kindness for weakness. My husband agrees with me. Is this right? What’s the correct way to handle it? Answer To a great degree the “correct” way to handle it depends on your motive, what you hope to accomplish, and what you sense the Holy Spirit say

Question Before we were married, my wife had a lot of guy friends. Now that we’re married, she wants to keep her friends and sees no problem going out for lunch with them or meeting them for coffee to “catch up.” I'm uncomfortable with this. Am I wrong or is it okay to have close friends of the opposite sex when you’re married? Answer It’s okay and even valuable to have opposite-sex friends. Yet there are several reasons why it’s both unwise and dangerous to spend one-on-one

Question My husband is having an affair with a co-worker. At first, he was going to leave and now he told me he wants to stay and that he loves me and the children. What should I do? Answer From the way you worded your question, it sounds like your husband is still having the affair. If that’s the case, there are only two viable options. He can either choose to stop having the affair and deal with the situation in a Biblically-consistent way or he can leave. No negotiation. N

Question My male friend and I have both had marital problems for a while. We started to meet at lunch to be a source of Christian support for each other. However, somehow, something more happened. While we haven’t been physically intimate, we’ve confessed physical feelings for each and have even admitted to having fantasies of being together as a couple in the future. We find ourselves sneaking to meet, and lying to our spouses about it. Have we just let the attraction thing